INNER STRENGTH

• These words really unnerved me and thought must share with all my women friends out there.
• “Don’t worry about losing people around you but worry about losing yourself in pleasing everyone around you.”
• Isn’t this true with all of us who have buried our own desires either for our loved ones  to fulfill their whims and fancies.
• That’s what we ought to do is the thought put into us as we are brought up. You must please everyone around you and create a name for yourself.
• Is it a wrong value instilled is the confusion at times. Not at all as a family we must move together but not at the cost of your own dignity and self-esteem.
• We women tend to give up our goals and aspirations to guide our loved ones towards their goal.
• Once they have reached their goal what do you think is your role any more.  We are left behind with a void of self- dissatisfaction, loneliness and a vacuum.
• This can surely be avoided if we tend to live for ourselves few minutes every day that gives us happiness. Not only that cultivate a habit to say NO to them.
• Appreciate them for their support and at the same time tell them you are hurt when they don’t value your sentiments and feelings. You might have a lurking fear as you say but come-on take it in your stride…..
• Overcome such a feel that lets you down. It’s they who need you and have made a choice to be with you. So be bold and move ahead.
• In this journey of life we come across end number of people like the shells brought along with the wave.
• You can’t burden yourself by carrying each one of them with you. Get going with your head held up high with a sense of achievement.
• People would follow you seeing your accomplishments and magnanimous personality that’s inspiring and motivating which is reflected in your confident smile.

Written By- Sujatha Sairam, Chennai.