Act With Wisdom….



Focus on Life…

Today’s short story of mine is going to touch upon the sensitive feeling of biological needs. Many women now-a-days go through depression, early menopause and hormonal imbalances. Apart from irregular food and sleep pattern there is lack of physical intimacy too. When biological needs are not met life becomes topsy-turvy. A question might arise then, how about spinsters or members of religious community who practice celibacy. Their way of living is entirely different from ours. We have experienced the bliss of togetherness and have a craving for it. When it’s not met we might do what Rajani did.

Rajani was happily married to Sudhir. They doted over each other and lead a happy life till Sudhir changed his job.  Rajani and Sudhir lived in a cosy home in Shimla.  Sudhir for better prospects and growth gave up his office job and moved to sales and promotion. This forced him to travel extensively. He would be at home hardly for five-six days in a month.  Even when he was there he would be busy over calls or would sleep to shun away travel fatigue. The money inflow of course was promising but the compatibility between him and Rajani had reduced. Rajani longed for those really intimate moments with Sudhir. Intimacy was of course there but was too mechanical.

Rajani was getting into depression. She started getting diverted to porn material on social media to satisfy her needs. While doing so, she happened to come across dating sites. She got attracted to it and thought of giving it a try. She started chatting with a person called Abhay who was facing problems of a similar nature. Their talks slowly got intimate and they loved each other’s company. They enjoyed intimacy over phone which gave Rajani, the much needed relaxation.

Abhay, one day suggested a meeting in person to enjoy the intimacy. Rajani got excited but was a bit scared too about the safety. How could she give up to a person whom she had just known over phone? Won’t such relationship be against moral values? It would be betraying Sudhir too, for no fault of his. But she had her biological needs. She was confused but finally decided not to go astray. She decided to let life go on as it is and not to succumb to biological cravings. She decided to focus her mind to something productive and for the growth of her family.

All these changed after she chatted with the friendly guide from STHREEJEEVAN who inspired her to focus on long term gains and avoid pitfalls in short term effects of stress.

Life is full of opportunities both boon and bane… choose them wisely.

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Author: sthreejeevan

The world is filled with great souls struggling to mark their identity.... as suppressed daughters, single mothers, depressed homemakers... SthreeJeevan empathizes with you and tries to help you, with your beautiful life. Get in touch with us and let's help you reach your goals.

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