Who Needs You The Most?
I’m sure your thoughts would travel off and on as you read the title. A million dollar question as to who’s the one who needs you the most. Someone who knows your worth and you mean the world to her. Is it your mom, grandma, sister, mother-in-law, daughter or one of your besties. These people undoubtedly need you but there’s one who seeks your attention forever and loves to be pampered by you the most. It’s none other than YOU yourself, beautiful ladies. In the mundanity of everyday living you seem to have forgotten your own likes and dislikes. It’s this sheer negligence that brings a backlog in whatever you do.
On many occasions you are reminded of your dad who treated you as a princess always. His happiness was to fulfil your whims and fancies at any cost. He appeared to be like a magician with a magic wand who turned your life into one like a fairyland. Even now after you are married to the man of your life, he continues to shelter you from all the odds. That’s his love which keeps you motivated. He has instilled in you virtues which give you the confidence to take up life as it comes. Then why have you refrained yourself to pamper the real YOU. Your responsibilities have doubled up, you need to be motivated to manage everything to the utmost perfection. That can happen only if you focus on yourself.
You cook everyone’s favourite meal to satisfy their taste buds, but how about yours? Find time to help yourself with what you love. Dress up in such a way that your inner beauty is reflected . Try to understand what suits you the best. Look into the mirror, admire yourself, throw a compliment to yourself. Then see how the perception of life changes. You need to save up some amount from your expenses to pamper yourself. There’s nothing wrong in doing so. Groom yourself regularly the way you want, have guts to try something new. In the work front you adapt yourself quickly as you have the driving force to bring home money. Likewise boost up your inner self by analysing what gives you true happiness. It may be sitting and watching TV, munching snacks whole day, without doing anything else. Who is stopping you? Relax and do it. You get a crazy idea of surprising your friend by dropping at her place with her favourite music CDs. If there are no constraints to it, then go ahead do it. Music and dance are good healers, so have a bend towards them to destress yourself. You needn’t be a professional to sing or dance, you love it and so you sing and dance. Rejoice in your own musings, automatically everything will fall in line. Never ever bother what people would say. Do they give importance to your preferences or seek your opinion in whatever they do. You are the master of your destiny, so pick up the brush of your talent and paint the canvas of your life with myriad colours.
I too realised this when I got a platform like STHREEJEEVAN to pamper myself. Penning down my thoughts to adorn your faces with a smile gives me a greater pleasure than my other routine activities. I love myself as a writer and take a pride in being the CO-FOUNDER of STHREEJEEVAN. This sense of pride is blended with a sense of gratitude for the FOUNDER of STHREEJEEVAN whose concern is the upliftment of women by breaking away the shackles of age old tradition, customs and beliefs. I’m sure this article will help you to do some introspection about yourself. Waiting to hear from you. Do write to us at firstname.lastname@example.org.
by Sujatha Sairam,
Co-Founder & Head-Content Delivery, SthreeJeevan.com